Thursday, September 18, 2008

Changes in my life.

Remember how I said that I was fine with M liking Tony? Well, I still don’t hate her, of course, but she’s really starting to get on my nerves. “Why?” - you may ask. Well, I’m getting seriously sick of the way she keeps on talking on and on non-stop about Tony all the time! Seriously, sometimes I cannot stand the way she will talk about how she will try to find opportunities to meet Tony alone. She even said she wanted to invite him to her house! And… AND… the part I’m most irritated about is that she is STILL flirting around with boys even though she says she is in love with Tony!!! I have not been hanging out with her so often now. Still, I can honestly say that it’s not jealousy that I’m feeling. It’s just… irritating to hear her talk like that, you know?

Now, I have to stop my ranting for a bit and thank all of you lovely people for giving me advice over the past few weeks. You girls and dudes have really helped me a lot and I really appreciate your comments. You comfort me and help me through the times when I am feeling stressed. HERE’S A BIG THANK YOU TO ALL!!! *Hugs*

Because of your advice, I managed to understand the situation my Mom is in. I realise that I have not been very fair to her by blaming her for everything. After all, she is also feeling stressed over having to take care of Ben too.

A few days ago, Katy had her 10th birthday. At first, Mom had no time and energy to organize a birthday party for her and Katy was very angry. They had a quarrel and I was about to take Katy’s side when I suddenly realised that Mom was looking extremely stressed out and tired. At that moment, I suddenly understood that it must have been really tiring to take care of Ben, and I pitied her. So, I offered to be the one to organize Katy’s birthday party.

Oh, I forgot to mention that I get along better with Katy now. I used to think she was irritating and childish. She is not exactly very mature yet, but she has stopped acting like a baby. I’m not so irritated by her now and I quite like it when sometimes, we spend some time with each other. Occasionally, we still quarrel, but as compared to the past, I think that I like Katy a lot more and we are much closer to each other now.

Yours Hopefully,
Anna.

12 comments:

JO! said...

Hello Anna ,(:
Try talking to Miranda ,
& change the topic whenever she speaks about Tony .
Its such a wrong way of her to flirt with guys ,
& perhaps you could also talk to Tony about it ?

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Yehs , talk more to your sister (:
Both of you then can bond ,
and became closer than before , or even now :D

:D :D

.venusa. said...

Hi ! (: O.O ! LOL ! You say you don't mind M liking Tony. But I think you are JEALOUS ! Because you said,you don't mind and all these. But in fact,you actually mind. That's why you wrote in your post that,Miranda's starting to get on your nerves. Haha ! Welcome for those comments =D ! O.o ! I think you have grown up. From immature Anna,becomes a mature Anna that knows how to understand her mum,and helped to organize Katy's birthday ! ;D And it's great to hear from you that,you are closer to Katy now ! (:

Babyyy BlogC: said...

Hello Anna(:. About the part when Miranda gets on your nerves , maybe you should explain to her that you don't like her talking about Tony all the time? & tell her that's it bothering you. You should also tell her that she should stop flirting even though she needs someone to love. But tell not to hurt her feelings , because i know you're not like Debbie. But i think you're jealous from the way you phrase all your lines. Cheer up~ Don't keep thinking about Tony yeah? :D
& about you and KatyC:
Its really good that you care so much about her and your mother.
You should find time to help your mother . Its also good that you helped your mother prepare Katy's birthday party , which was a great job!C: Yeah , so , keep talking to one another , and i'm sure the bond will tighten C: , Cheers !
Dawna(:

Kitty'LeeChiYu said...

hello anna(:
i do not like miranda too , i think she is too filrthy ! although , you might get jealous if miranda keeps talking about tony . but , i think would not like a girl like her , being so flithy .
And , i think you have changed your opinion of katy now , your relationship is better .
i think by helping her organise a party would be really nice . i think katy would like you more too(: Now , your relationship with your mum also gone better as you finally can understand her situation .

stay happy :D
yours truly ,
CHIYU

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rocketmail said...

I can see that you and Katy are getting to understand each other.
Both of you would have a very close bond with each other.
When M talks to you about Tony, just try to calm down or even change the subject when she is talking about Tony...
-asyran

xuan said...

I am glad that you could understand your mum's situation =)

I am also glad to hear you that you and you sister are getting closer . You might try to talk to her more often or try to share your days in the school and how you feel about her

I think Katy also want you to play and talk with her more often

Go happy and cherish the days you were with her

Hanisah love Paramore said...

I do not have an advice for you yet about M and Tony. But try talking to her. And about your mum's problems, I've experienced that too you know! Try spending more time with her and help her lighten her burden. I hope that works! And planning a party for Katy was a big job and I really admire that. Honest! Good girl.

Love, Hanisah, Paramore, Rihanna and Jonas Brothers

Hanisah love Paramore said...

I do not have an advice for you yet about M and Tony. But try talking to her. And about your mum's problems, I've experienced that too you know! Try spending more time with her and help her lighten her burden. I hope that works! And planning a party for Katy was a big job and I really admire that. Honest! Good girl.

Love, Hanisah, Paramore, Rihanna and Jonas Brothers

NamikoYume said...

;;DD
HeLLo :DD
i amm gladd that you help out with Katy's birthday. at least she arnt that irritatinggg right !?!? :D

But do you realized that you ARE jealouuuuss xDD

&& I think is her habit on talking to boys likethat . That make you think she is a flirt. It might not be what you think . Just ignore whatever she do.. Its her chiioce :D She might wants to change or might think that it is very natural stuff. Probably talking about her habits might irritate her. But then it would be the best thing to do anyway.

Alrighhtt :D
I am really super gladd about you attitudr changes between your mom and you . Its a large improvement.:D
--&& as you see, you understand and knew Miranda's Family backgroundd. So, i think you should justt control yourself a little more, afterall she is just being neglect by her parents.Lighten her burden ; also lighten your mother burden . Your mother didnt want all this to happen ...
:D
So , well, let it be fair ;
Play and talk more with Katy , She is just a child you knoww :DDD

You are loveed :D
❤Cherlyn ;

Hello Avere! :) said...

heyhey Anna!
maybe you should talk to Marinda about Tony, just tell her straight forward that you don't like her talking about him infront of you all the time, i think she'll understand. :)

and that's so sensible and great of you for helping Kathy to organise a birthday party for her.
your Mum will be very proud of you. (and i think she is. HAHA!)

i feel that you are so understandable, your mother will be so relieved to have your understanding now. (yep, she is very tired, so maybe you can buy a lil something for her to cheer her up, chocolate maybe?)

HAHA! may you be happy always,
takecare sweetie. <3

Unknown said...

Hello Anna . Try changing the subject whenever Miranda talks about Tony , but don't do it too obvious .

Also , i think you did a good job preparing Katy's birthday party . (:
Well done !.

Try not to think that Katy is irritating already , she is just feeling jealous because all of you gives your attention to Ben and not all to her . Try to talk to her and sort things out . :D

Take care .

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